How Can I Get Along With My Brother/Sister

 How Can I Get Along With My Brother/Sister

Family is the basic components of the society. And the parents are the most important source of youth’s behavior, which effect to their outlook in life. There is no such thing as the perfect family. Every family is unique with its own combination of strengths and weaknesses. 

On a scale of 1 to 5​—1 being “distant” and 5 being “friendly”—​how would you rate your relationship with your brother or sister? there are brothers and sisters who are very close. For example, Felicia, who is 19 years old, says: “My sister, Irena, who is 16 years old, is one of my best friends.” But, many are like Lauren and Marla. Lauren says, “We love to fight, even over trifles.”

Parents are indeed responsible for maintaining harmony at home. However, sooner or later, we need to learn to get along with other people.

we can try to think about the conflicts that have occurred between yourself and your brother or sister. What do we fight about the most? If your brother or sister always annoys you​—acting like a boss or intruding on your privacy—​it may be difficult for you not to become angry. But, If you harbor a hurt feeling, it can cause an outburst of anger, just as pressing your nose can cause blood to come out. And, the problem just got worse.

so there are several ways to prevent arguments between siblings, first find out the cause or root of the problem between brothers and sisters so we don't focus on the incident but the root of the problem, secondly Learn to Resolve or Avoid Conflict. Of course, identifying the root of the problem between you and your brother or sister is not enough. so we can try to Agree on some rules between your brothers or sisters, then apply those rules, then if you do or say something upsetting try not to be quick to offend, then when you are annoyed try to forgive your brother or sister and forget about the problem that happened , lastly try to Appreciate its good qualities. If we focus on their good qualities, we will see more positive things than the annoying things that brothers or sisters have done.